Want an easy way to make your wedding more inclusive? Ask for pronouns on the RSVP. It’s one of the simplest ways to make your celebration feel modern, thoughtful, and truly reflective of your guest list. This guide shows you how to do it right—and fun.

Etiquette books have a lot to say about how to address a wedding invitation. Our guide offers a better way. One rooted in respect, clarity, and honoring the person receiving it. Planning an inclusive wedding starts with what’s on the envelope.

Not sure how many wedding invitations to order? We break down why it’s not always “one per household,” how to plan for chosen family, polyamorous guests, and last-minute surprises—plus the inclusive formula that keeps things stress-free and beautifully intentional.